The Science behind philia

Social health, friendship, and loneliness are becoming increasingly important topics in psychology and healthcare. Here, we present key scientific insights: both on the importance of close relationships for health and on the effectiveness of evidence-based digital tools for reducing loneliness and strengthening social bonds.

Everyone Has Social Health

Just like we all have physical and mental health, every person also has social health. This doesn’t just apply to people who feel lonely: all of us move through phases of healthier and less healthy social relationships over our lives. Social health refers to having a suitable quantity and quality of relationships that meet our individual need for meaningful human connection (adapted from Doyle & Link, 2024).
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Relationships Make Us Healthier, Happier, and Help Us Live Longer

The importance of social health––whether through friendship, positive work relationships, or protection from loneliness––is becoming increasingly clear. One of the longest-running studies on human wellbeing found that strong relationships were the single most important factor for life satisfaction. In contrast, participants who felt lonely were more likely to be ill and die younger. As lead researcher Robert Waldinger put it: “Loneliness kills. It’s as powerful as smoking or alcoholism.”

How Can We Strengthen Friendships and Reduce Loneliness?

Fortunately, clinical psychology offers evidence-based techniques to build strong relationships and reduce loneliness. Interestingly, the most effective interventions aren’t those that simply create new contacts—but those that help people improve their ability to connect. Techniques such as cognitive restructuring, social skills training, and psychoeducation help individuals build new friendships, deepen existing ones, and feel less lonely. Digital tools can guide users through these methods and support meaningful change in their real-world relationships.

In Short: Relationships Matter

But science is clear: techniques like cognitive restructuring can reliably help you feel less lonely and build deeper friendships. Try our app to explore how these methods can improve your social wellbeing.

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